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Wednesday, May 21, 2008

In memory of Gus, March 2000- May 20, 2008

Yesterday was one of the most difficult days I can remember. I had to put my beloved Gus to sleep yesterday afternoon. He bit me quite badly on Sunday, when I was holding Elizabeth and helping Jack tie his shoe. It wasn't the first time he bit me, it was at least a monthly occurrence. We think he didn't have a good outlet for hunting and that I was his 'prey'. This bite was quite bad leaving puncture marks and bruising in the shape of his mouth on my arm. I took the advice of our veterinarian and decided that I couldn't in good faith take him to a shelter without telling of his biting history. The best thing for him was to be put to sleep.
It was the most difficult decision I have ever made, but I know I couldn't ever risk something like that happening to Jack and Elizabeth or any other kids visiting.
I have always been an animal lover and have shed countless tears over the loss of my childhood pets. I can't watch movies where a pet dies, I cried recently during the Kentucky Derby and I couldn't read Marley and Me without crying. Growing up my parents would only let me have outside cats. When I met Matt I told him that I would have indoor animals and if he didn't want that then we probably weren't a good match. Luckily, Matt is an animal lover as well. Eight years ago, as soon as we moved into an apartment that allowed animals, Matt and I got Gus. He was our first 'child' and boy, did we baby him.
Gus had such a personality and I never will open a jar of green olives without thinking of him (he loved green olives without pimentos and would come running from anywhere in the house when we opened the jar). He kept my feet warm at night when he slept between my legs. I didn't sleep well last night and I know I was waiting for him to meow and jump in our bed. Gus always found the best spot to nap, and his favorite was lying in the sun next to our patio door. I will always think of him on a sunny day and I hope that he found a sunny spot in heaven to nap.\

Saturday, May 17, 2008

Tantrums

I was supposed to go with Matt this weekend to the wedding of his good friend from med school, but I decided at the last minute to stay home--figured I should be home at least one weekend before we move (I think it's 9 days from now...and not ready).

Anyway, it's been so long since Jack has had a full blown temper tantrum and of course, he would have to have one today when Matt is away for the weekend. I should have seen it coming since he was still awake 2 hours after I put him in bed last night, was up around 5am, and then we played outside this morning while Elizabeth was napping (was hoping I could run some of the energy out of him!). We took a quick trip to Target at 11 and I promised him if he was good we could get a cheeseburger for lunch (my super skinny kid now LOVES McDonald's and we are all for the mega calories he can eat in one meal). Anyway, it started when he ran away from me in the parking lot and continued when he wouldn't get in the cart. I did what any sane person would do and loaded both kids (sleeping Elizabeth and screaming Jack) in the car and came home with nothing off my list. And of course, no cheeseburger.
I know he was tired and I probably should have been more patient. He did end up taking a 3 hour nap this afternoon and I did cave in and go to McDonald's for dinner-after our 2nd trip to Target today. Here's to no tantrums tomorrow...

Friday, May 16, 2008

I've been tagged

Finally getting to this, Kristin! Lots of little known information about me...

Jobs I have had
Detassle corn (only in Iowa!!)
Lifeguard/swim lesson instructor
babysitting
lab assistant in swine nutrition lab at ISU
graduate student/teaching assistant at ISU
research assistant at U of I
sr research technologist at Mayo
mom



All the places I’ve lived
Independence, IA
Ames, IA
Iowa City, IA
Rochester, MN
and soon Green Bay, WI


4 Favorite Movies
I have seen only 1 movie in the last year and only a couple in the last 3 years so none are current movies..actually I can't even think of 4. But, I'm going to get NetFlix when we move to catch up on years of non-movie watching.
Ferris Bueller's Day Off (I think I have it memorized)
Sixteen Candles


4 Favorite Foods
Anything Italian (probably Matt's lasagna is one of my top favorites)
Chicago Style Pizza
a good, juicy, tender steak with mushrooms and onions on top
chocolate and ice cream (chocolate ice cream of course!)



4 Weird Things you didn’t know about me
I don't eat/like chicken. I eat all other meat but I despise chicken.
I don't touch the railings on the escalator (have you ever seen anyone cleaning them?)
I'm afraid of library books-I buy all my books new with the rare exception of buying one at the used book store (but only when it looks really new and has no boogers in it!)
I love to vacuum-it's very therapeutic for me and a necessity with a dog and cat in the house


4 Favorite TV shows
Greys Anatomy
Divine Design
House Hunters
Oprah

4 Places I’d love to go
Italy
China
Africa
Alaska